我正在创建一个朋友请求系统，允许用户发送请求给对方添加为朋友，如Facebook，我有2个条件，如果：

• 用户是配置文件所有者，他不能添加他自己，我将回显一个错误消息
• 用户不是配置文件的所有者，它将回显一条消息，表示等待，然后发送请求

如果用户已经发送了请求，则我将回显消息以通知用户已经发送了请求。
但错误是，我在第一个条件，因为系统显示用户是所有者配置文件，但这是错误的
有谁能帮帮我吗？

这是一段代码

function addAsFriend(a,b){
   //alert("Member with id:" + a + "request friendship with the memeber with id:" + b);
  var url = "script_for_profile/request_as_friend.php";
  $("#add_friend").text("please wait...").show();
  $.post(url,{request:"requestFreindship",mem1:a,mem2:b},function(data){
    $("#add_friend").html(data).show().fadeOut(12000);
  });
}

<div class="interactContainers" id="add_friend">
               <div align="right"><a href="#" onclick="return false" onmousedown="javascript:toggleInteractContainers('add_friend');">Cancel</a></div>
               Add <?php echo $username ?> as Friend?&nbsp;
               <a href ="#" onclick="return false" onmousedown="javascript:addAsFriend(<?php echo $_SESSION['user_id']; ?>,<?php echo $userid; ?>);">Yes</a>

请求作为朋友. php

<?php
//var we need for  both  members
$mem1=preg_replace('#[^0-9]#i','',$_POST['mem1']);
$mem2=preg_replace('#[^0-9]#i','',$_POST['mem2']);

if(!$mem1||!$mem2)
{
    echo "Error .missing data";
    exit();
}
if($mem1==$mem2)
{
    echo "Error you can not add yourself as friend";
    exit();
}
 require_once('../include/connect.php'); 

 if($_POST['request']=="requestFriendship")
 {
     //check that  there  is not  a request  pending  where this viewer  is requesting  this profile  owner
     $sql = mysql_query("SELECT id  FROM friend_requests WHERE mem1='$mem1' AND mem2='$mem2'limit1")or die(mysql_error());
     $numRows = mysql_num_rows($sql);
     if($numRows > 0)
     {
         echo "You have a friend request pending already  for this member. they must approve  it when they view their request list";
         exit();
     }
      //check that  there  is not  a request  pending  where this profile owner  is not already requesting  this viewer
     $sql = mysql_query("SELECT id  FROM friend_requests WHERE mem1='$mem2' AND mem2='$mem1'limit1")or die(mysql_error());
     $numRows = mysql_num_rows($sql);
     if($numRows > 0)
     {
         echo "This user has requested you as friend already! Check  your friend  Request on your profile";
         exit();
     }
     $sql = mysql_query("INSERT INTO friend_requests(mem1,mem2,timedate) VALUES('$mem1','$mem2',now())") or die (mysql_error("friend request  insertionn error"));
     //$sql = mysql_query("INSERT INTO pms(to,from,time,sub,msg) VALUES('$mem2','XXXXX',now(),'New Friend Request','YOU Have a New  friend request waiting for approval.<br /><br />Navigate to your profile and check  your friend request.<br /><br />Thank you.')") or die (mysql_error("friend request PM insertionn error"));

  echo "Friend Request  sent  succesfully. this member must approve the request";
  exit();    
 }
?>