我能够将Microsoft Visual Studio 2022版本（17.5.3）连接到Ventura版本13.3 Mac OSX，在Sickcodes Docker图像中运行，我从来没有遇到过任何问题，直到我不得不重新格式化我的PC，从那时起，我遇到了一点麻烦。
ISO模拟器在Windows中启动，但被卡住说“连接到Mac...”
如果在VS中我取消选择“远程模拟器到Windows”选项是VS，那么ISO模拟器将在Mac VM上启动并加载VS应用程序，但我不想在Mac上工作，因为这意味着我必须来回翻转，当做开发工作时，这是一场噩梦
当我检查Xamarin.Simulator日志时，我注意到：

Startup:
    arguments: --device=EBAB483F-D9AF-XXX-XXXX--mlaunch=/Users/XXX/Library/Caches/Xamarin/XMA/SDKs/dotnet/packs/Microsoft.iOS.Sdk/16.2.1040/tools/bin/mlaunch --launchsim=//Users/XXX/Library/Caches/Xamarin/mtbs/builds/MauiApp1/e42ad46171c3031dfcf0c05e01b82061b90e7c77273501****/bin/Debug/net7.0-ios/iossimulator-x64/MauiApp1.app -argument=-monodevelop-port -argument=56435 -setenv=__XAMARIN_DEBUG_PORT__=56435 --sdkroot=/Applications/Xcode.app -h=172.31.**.** -ssh=XXX
    version: 17.5.0.518 (430be4c76fa1617d1af209951047a425c391d38e)
Connection state changed:
    State: Connecting
SSH Connect:
    target: 172.XX.XXX.XX
Using SSH pass phrase
Warning: Error during connecting
System.Net.Sockets.SocketException (0x80004005): No connection could be made because the target machine actively refused it
   at Renci.SshNet.Abstractions.SocketAbstraction.Connect(IPEndPoint remoteEndpoint, TimeSpan connectTimeout)
   at Renci.SshNet.Session.SocketConnect(String host, Int32 port)
   at Renci.SshNet.Session.Connect()
   at Renci.SshNet.BaseClient.CreateAndConnectSession()
   at Renci.SshNet.BaseClient.Connect()
   at Xamarin.Simulator.Core.Protocol.SshNetworkClientConnection.ConnectSsh(Target target)
   at Xamarin.Simulator.Core.Protocol.SshNetworkClientConnection.ConnectAsync(Target target, MessageTypes messageTypes)
   at Xamarin.Simulator.Core.Protocol.SimulatorClient.ConnectAsync()
   at Xamarin.Simulator.Windows.App.<ConnectAsync>d__16.MoveNext()
Connection state changed:
    State: Disconnected
Exit:
    Exit Code: 0

因此，问题似乎与ssh连接，但我可以使用ssh连接到mac从windows没有问题使用powershell

PS C:\Users\x> ssh-add -l
The agent has no identities.
PS C:\Users\x> ssh -p 50922 patrickhume@172.31.***
The authenticity of host '[172.31.***]:50922 ([172.31.***]:50922)' can't be established.
ED25519 key fingerprint is SHA256:+6********************.
This key is not known by any other names
Are you sure you want to continue connecting (yes/no/[fingerprint])? yes
Warning: Permanently added '[172.31.***]:50922' (ED25519) to the list of known hosts.
(patrickhume@172.31.*** Password:
Last login: 
XXX@Patricks-iMac-Pro ~ % ls
Desktop         Downloads       Movies          Pictures
Documents       Library         Music           Public

我还可以使用以下命令从Mac VM连接到Windows：

ssh -p 22 patrickhume@outlook.com@192.XXX

深入查看日志，我想知道Xamarin是否没有正确设置端口
//Users/patrickhume/Library/Caches/Xamarin/mtbs/builds/MauiApp1/e42ad46171c3031dfcf0c05e01b82061b90e7c772735013ee3a8aae95dea2dbe/bin/Debug/net7.0-ios/iossimulator-x64/MauiApp1.app -argument=-monodevelop-port -argument=52260 -setenv=XAMARIN_DEBUG_PORT=52260--sdkroot=/Applications/Xcode.app-h=172.31.XXX -帕特里克·休谟
然而，ssh端口在连接到vm时被设置，如VS的终端窗口日志所示：

1>------ Build started: Project: MauiApp1, Configuration: Debug Any CPU ------
1>Executing SayHello Task to establish a connection to a Remote Server. 
1>          Properties: 
1>              SessionId=e42ad46171c3031dfcf0c05e01b82061b90e7c772735013ee3a8aae95dea2dbe, 
1>              Addresss=172.XXXX, 
1>              SshPort=50922, 
1>              TcpPort=52443, 
1>              User=****, 
1>              AppName=MauiApp1,
1>              VisualStudioProcessId=38828,
1>              ContinueOnDisconnected=False
1>Detected signing identity:
1>  Bundle Id: com.companyname.mauiapp1
1>  App Id: com.companyname.mauiapp1
1>Skipping analyzers to speed up the build. You can execute 'Build' or 'Rebuild' command to run analyzers.
1>MauiApp1 -> D:\GitHub\MauiApp1\bin\Debug\net7.0-ios\iossimulator-x64\MauiApp1.dll
1>Optimizing assemblies for size may change the behavior of the app. Be sure to test after publishing. See: https://aka.ms/dotnet-illink
......

我排除了防火墙，因为我在Mac和Windows上禁用了它，我添加了ssh作为例外：

New-NetFirewallRule -Name sshd -DisplayName 'OpenSSH Server (sshd)' -Enabled True -Direction Inbound -Protocol TCP -Action Allow -LocalPort 22

即使我完全禁用windows防火墙和我的防病毒软件，也没有什么不同。
使用来自stackoverflow的答案
我甚至在环境中添加了DOCKER_HOST，并在tcp：//localhost：2375上不使用TLS添加了Expose守护进程，并使用netstat -anb验证它是否正在预期的端口上运行和侦听
其他建议包括更新VS或Xcode-（甚至降级它），但我以前使用的是Xcode版本14.2，我使用的是最新版本的VS
我尝试了一些.wslconfig配置设置，如：

# Network host settings that enable the DNS server used by WSL 2. This example changes the hostname, sets generateHosts to false, preventing WSL from the default behavior of auto-generating /etc/hosts, and sets generateResolvConf to false, preventing WSL from auto-generating /etc/resolv.conf, so that you can create your own (ie. nameserver 1.1.1.1).
[network]
hostname = DemoHost
generateHosts = false
generateResolvConf = false
# Turn off default connection to bind WSL 2 localhost to Windows localhost
localhostforwarding=true

但这感觉像是在转移注意力，所以我恢复到了原来的配置设置：

[wsl2]
nestedVirtualization=true

我看了sshd_config文件，但由于我以前没有更改这些文件，而且这有点超出我的专业知识范围，因此我没有更改这些文件
所以现在我没有办法了，我相信这不是使用VM，Docker或Sickcodes的问题，因为我以前有过这样的工作。所以如果有人有任何让我知道，请？
注意：docker将Ubuntu集成设置为默认，wsl使用Ubuntu作为其默认发行版&我使用WSL 2。
VS能够毫无问题地与Mac配对（我在配对时使用“172.***：50922”作为地址）